The emotional blow is very hard to deal with when a relationship falls apart. Even though you know it's the right thing to do. And if you didn't want it to happen, it is even more painful. It seems impossible to stop thinking about the memories you have shared together.
There is no easy way...And most of all we need an iron will and rock hard determination.The best way to do it is cold heartedly. Block the mail id so that the person you want to break off from, cannot mail you... Delete the phone numbers. Destroy photographs. or any sentimental gifts received. Do not look back. That is the only way.
It hurts like hell. But with time, the pain eases. The first day is always the hardest. Then, as the days go by, the pain eases and it becomes easier to remember the good times. a bit like facing death. Except that what is dead here is the relationship.
Getting over someone - I don't know...Actually I feel like we will never have the courage to live alone... We have always been so dependant on someone...and scared to sit alone on a weekend evening wondering what to do... I think...We got too insecure in our life (Although most of us have had a perfectly secure upbringing!).
I think when you are younger, it seems that way. When you push yourself then you discover your strengths--something even you weren't aware you were capable of.
If you discover a passion that is so intense then I guess, it will become easier for you to cope.
One has to take action if one feels that one's self respect is being compromised. If you endlessly wait for the phone to ring, hoping it will be your love? if you obsess about that person? If it affect your whole life. In the sense, does your whole life revolve around that one person? If so, it is time to end it.
And in the end you will be richer, though it doesn’t seem so at first...Eventually you will be glad you reclaimed your life and you will be glad that you can survive and be happy. Despite everything.
"Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn't mean you are weak!
It only means that you are strong enough to let go!"
"I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy, I'm going to laugh, so you don't see me cry, I'm going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me - I'm going to smile."
Stay Happy……….Stay Blessed….Come what may!!
There is no easy way...And most of all we need an iron will and rock hard determination.The best way to do it is cold heartedly. Block the mail id so that the person you want to break off from, cannot mail you... Delete the phone numbers. Destroy photographs. or any sentimental gifts received. Do not look back. That is the only way.
It hurts like hell. But with time, the pain eases. The first day is always the hardest. Then, as the days go by, the pain eases and it becomes easier to remember the good times. a bit like facing death. Except that what is dead here is the relationship.
Getting over someone - I don't know...Actually I feel like we will never have the courage to live alone... We have always been so dependant on someone...and scared to sit alone on a weekend evening wondering what to do... I think...We got too insecure in our life (Although most of us have had a perfectly secure upbringing!).
I think when you are younger, it seems that way. When you push yourself then you discover your strengths--something even you weren't aware you were capable of.
If you discover a passion that is so intense then I guess, it will become easier for you to cope.
One has to take action if one feels that one's self respect is being compromised. If you endlessly wait for the phone to ring, hoping it will be your love? if you obsess about that person? If it affect your whole life. In the sense, does your whole life revolve around that one person? If so, it is time to end it.
And in the end you will be richer, though it doesn’t seem so at first...Eventually you will be glad you reclaimed your life and you will be glad that you can survive and be happy. Despite everything.
"Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn't mean you are weak!
It only means that you are strong enough to let go!"
"I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy, I'm going to laugh, so you don't see me cry, I'm going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me - I'm going to smile."
Stay Happy……….Stay Blessed….Come what may!!
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