Proud To Be A Woman

The Willingness To Listen

The Patience To Understand

The Strength To Support

The Heart to Care

And Just To Be There

That's The Beauty Of A Woman

Happy Women's Day!!!!

What do women want?

What actully a women want? Does anyone really know?? Many a philosophers have spent a lifetime trying to figure this one out.

Here is my attempt to answer this question as I see it. For the one woman really close to me is Me.

We want to be secured and yet be fancy free!

We want a career and we want the choice to quit when we wish.

We want freedom of choice, of opinion, of living the way we want.

We want a man who loves us, respects us and cares for us. We want a man who keeps us on a pedestal up there and adore us. We want a man who really wants us.

We want children when we want them and not when the world thinks we should have them.

We want money.

We want the perfect wardrobe. We want a lot of shoes -bags. We want holidays and vacations.

We want a healthy body. We want to love our curves, our color, our skin and our hair. And we do.

We want a nice beautiful home. A warm welcoming place to come back to.

We want friends who are as mad as us and yet understand us.

We want to be individuals first and then be seen as “women”.

We want to be respected. We are proud of who we are, please do not force us to think otherwise.

Is this asking for a lot??

Do Appreciate Her

Today I just got a call from my old friend who is desperately wants to get married but couldn't find a right girl till now. I asked what you want actually.....he said a working girl,dikhne me thik thak si, thodi bahut cooking aati ho............blah blah.

Like any other men. After all men are men. I told him you (infact all boys) should marry with these facts firmly grounded in their mind……..before getting married especially to a working women.


"Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;


One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements. One, who has lived and loved,
Her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;


One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,


One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen


One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day,even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;


One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;


Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise


One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;


One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;


One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly – Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.


But not many guys understand this……

Atleast appreciate “HER”. Atlest don't let her forget that how fantastic she is..

Just read it some where..

Women will never be as successful as men because they have no wives to advise them.




– Dick Van Dyke