Magic Called Love

It was yet another tiring day at work. Had been slogging since 8 in the morning. Had a severe back ache and this pain more than making me uncomfortable was also giving me jitters. I want to take leave but in no way I could afford this.

I have no choice rather than to take pain killer and do my work………..I am a person who always avoids taking medicine……but….

Finally left office at around 8pm only to be welcomed by the most horrifiedd packed local train. I can’t even enter it and I missed it…………again need to wait at least 15 min for another local.

In Delhi I always travelled by my office cab . I have never taken local bus even. But in Mumbai cab culture is only with BPOs and that too in limited areas.

And at times it’s really tiring. I seriously hats off to Mumbaiite especially ladies who travel daily very long way by these too packed locals…….I take only half an hour to reach my office…..But packed crowded trains…really horrified…everyday you have to fight to enter in it and need to make space for you just standing space.

I really don’t remember when last time I was sitting in local. Everyday I have to stand up that too at door only………….
Well… I was almost ready to collapse on the nearest surface which deserved me. Hungry, irritated, tired, over worked and in pain.Now that’s a life I never thought I would have when I was doing that MBA.Or when I was working in Delhi.


Well..Let me stop about life hurdles here. What I wanted to write about was quite something else. Yes, so it was 9.15 pm and I was almost nearing home and it was raining like the clouds would never get a chance again. Ritesh daily picks me up from the station even though it’s just a 5 minutes away to home but he doesn’t want his dear wife to walk (and neither does the wife ;) ). So there he was to take me home.

The moment I saw him, with that smile on his face and that warmth in his eyes I was a different person. There goes my anger, my stress and the fact that I was so tired. Now this is what I call love and I am blessed to have him. That serene tranquillity that overwhelms me every time I meet him is the reason I can sustain my work. This is the magic of love. And that’s my elixir to life.

This picture says a lot :-))

Relationship & Interest

It was a long holiday after so many days and we were in Mumbai on this Diwali vacations no friends around.Ritesh and me have been busy in our work and  on every weekends with some friends or some party so have not able to spend as much time together as we would have liked to so this was the perfect opportunity to spend some quality time.

And we really enjoyed it,we did shopping ,movie,cooking,diwali decoration,crackers and so much....I was just thinking .....beacuse I heard it somewhere that couples should cultivate common interests to enhance their relationship. I am really not sure about the cultivating part.

As we never had too. We both love travelling and we both are spontaneous with our travels. We love eating out and experimenting with various cuisines. And we both get down to cooking together. We love the water and swimming is another thing we do together. We love shopping. So we head out together and then go to respective sections only to meet again at the trail rooms. Life looks all set.


We haven’t made efforts to imbibe each others interests, but we have found a way around it. Like in his free time he watches TV and I stick to my laptop or some books magazines. So we sit together but do different things. He can't talk much.......and I am a chatter box.

I am sure there are people out there who make a lot of effort to pick up a hobby just for the sake of their partner. We didn’t, coz we didn’t have to. We had our common interests and we had our not so common interests. And we like it that way.
I really don't understand how can people change their basic nature just for the sake of thier partner.

It might be important for couples to enjoy stuff together. But it’s equally important to have some varied interests as well. Now if 2 people were just the same won’t be life too boring? Nothing new will happen.....moreover there is nothing to share.........Atleast I feel so.

Happy Birthday Ritzz!!!!

There are many views on birthdays. One school of thought thinks that a birthday is like any other day of the year—each day comes only once a year; So what is the big deal about a birthday? After all, it makes you a year older, and after one becomes an adult, I think most people dread birthdays.

The second school of thought believes that birthdays are truly special. We do not usually go all the way to our loved ones or even tell them that they matter, on a daily basis. We are so busy leading our hectic lives, that expressing things like these are pushed aside. A birthday is one day that you can really tell the person how much that person matters to you. It is a celebration because that person is special. Birthdays are only as special as the people who have them!

I belong to the second school of thought. If a person is important to me, I usually make a BIG effort to make the day truly special for them. Tomorrow is very special to me. It’s the birthday of the most important guy in my life—Ritesh.


This is the 2nd birthday of his that we will be celebrating together. And I will try to do something special for him.
So I am writing this post, to tell him how very special he is to me.
Happy birthday Ritesh !


"Happy Birthday Dear!
I am so lucky to have a hubby like you.
Every Month/Year with you is better than the last.
Hanging out with you is still my favorite thing to do.
Happy Birthday to my partner and my best friend.
My love for you grows and grows with each passing year.
I can't imagine living without you at my side.
Growing old with you is one of my favorite things to do.
Happy Birthday to the love of my life."

If you live to be a hundred I want to live to be a hundred minus one day,
so I never have to live without you.