Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Tere Khushboo Mein Base Khat......

After so many days I am listening this Gazal it's very close to my heart.....love these lyrics.

tere khushboo mein base khat main jalaata kaise

pyaar mein dube huye khat main jalaata kaise
tere haathon ke likhe khat main jalaata kaise

tune duniya ki nigaahon se jo bachkar likhe
saal ha saal mere naam baraabar likhe
kabhi din mein toh kabhi raat ko uthkar likhe
tere khushbu mein base

jinaka har labj mujhe yaad tha paani ki tarah
yaad themujhako jo paigaamein jubaani ki tarah
mujhako pyaare thejo anmol nishaani ke tarah
tere khushboo mein base khat main jalaata kaise
pyaar mein dube huye khat main jalaata kaise
tere haathon ke likhe khat main jalaata kaise
tere khat aaj main ganga mein baha loon - (2)
aag behate huye paani mein laga aaya hoon

Monday, August 08, 2011

They Love Me...

I do not know why I am writing this today. Today is no mother’s day or father’s day nor its their birthday. Nothing special happened today. Its just one of my usual working days.

Still suddenly I found myself thinking of those eyes. Eyes of my mom , when she saw me in my wedding attire. She held my cheeks and said that I look beautiful. But her eyes said much more. My mother , who never expresses her emotions in words. We have never heard her saying that she loves us or that she is worried about us. We have seen her like this forever and so we don’t really mind it. But that day , I saw a pair of eyes full of emotions , happiness and satisfaction.

Also that day I noticed someone who looked more beautiful than the bride. Yeah , my mom. She looked really pretty at my wedding. She got lots of compliments too. She attributed it to her makeup and hair do. Since she never goes to parlour , she said that the change made her look different and pretty. I don’t agree , she looked beautiful for she was happy, may be happier than the bride. And on my sis wedding as well…she was looking stunning. Although she doesn’t take more than 15-20 mins. And I went parlor….still she was looking best…again best than the bride. Same my sis felt.

Thinking about those eyes , I also remembered about a man , who told me that he is blessed that he has a daughter like me and like my sis. He always appreciate always says he feels proud of me.I just could not believe my ears. I have given him enough troubles. I would have disowned a daughter like myself perhaps , I thought. Still this man says he is blessed ??

What did God make parents off ? Will I be so giving/forgiving ever ? Can I be a good parent ?

Thursday, August 04, 2011

Ajeeb lagti hai sham kabhi kabhi

Ajeeb lagti hai sham kabhi kabhi

Zindagi lagti hai bejaan kabhi kabhi
Samjh Aaye tou humen bhi batana
Ke kyun karti hain yaden pareshan kabhi kabhi.

Nazar badal ke dekho, nazaare badal jaayenge

Nazar badal ke dekho, nazaare badal jaayenge,

Soch badal ke dekho, sitare badal jaayenge,
Kashtiyan badalne ki kya zaroorat,
Dishayein badal ke dekho, Kinare badal jaayenge.


I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

----Maya Angelou

Tuesday, August 02, 2011

Why wedding ring should put on the fourth finger ??...

Really interesting thing.

Why wedding ring should put on the fourth finger??
Pls follow the below step, really god make this a miracle (this is from a Chinese excerpt)
Firstly, show your palm, centre finger bend and put together back to back
Secondly, the rest 4 fingers tips to tips
Games begin, follow the below arrangement, 5 finger but only 1 pair can split.

Try to open your thumb, the thumb represent parents, it can be open because all human does go thru sick and dead. Which are our parents will leave us one day

Please close up your thumb, then open your second finger, the finger represent brothers and sisters, they do have their own family which is too they will leave us too

Now close up your second finger, open up your little finer, this represent your children. Sooner or later they too will leave us for they got they own living to live

Nevertheless, close up your little finer, try to open your fourth finger which we put our wedding ring; you will be surprise to find that it cannot be open at all. Because it represent husband and wife, this whole life you will be attach to each other.

Real love will stick together ever and forever

Thumb represents parents
Second finger represent brothers & sisters
Centre finger represent own self
Fourth finger represent your partner
Last finger represent your children

Facts About Dreams

  • Within 5 minutes of waking half of your dream is forgotten. Within 10, 90% is gone.
  • People who became blind after birth can see images in their dreams. People who are born blind do not see any images, but have dreams equally vivid involving their other senses of sound, smell, touch and emotion.
  • Every human being dreams (except in cases of extreme psychological disorder). If you think you are not dreaming you just forget your dreams. 

  • Our mind is not inventing faces in our dreams we see real faces of real people that we have seen during our life but may not know or remember. We have all seen hundreds of thousands of faces throughout our lives, so we have an endless supply of characters for our brain to utilize during our dreams.
  • A full 12% of sighted people dream exclusively in black and white. The remaining number dream in full color. Studies from 1915 through to the 1950s maintained that the majority of dreams were in black and white, but these results began to change in the 1960s. Today only 4.4% of the dreams of under-25 year-olds are in black and white. Recent research has suggested that those changing results may be linked to the switch from black-and-white film and TV to color media.

  • If you dream about some particular subject it is not often that the dream is about that. Dreams speak in a deeply symbolic language. Whatever symbol your dream picks on it is most unlikely to be a symbol for itself.
  • The most common emotion experienced in dreams is anxiety. Negative emotions are more common than positive ones.
  • On average you can dream anywhere from one or two hours every night.
  • Studies have been done on many different animals, and they all show the same brain waves during dreaming sleep as humans. Watch a dog sleeping sometime. The paws move like they are running and they make yipping sounds as if they are chasing something in a dream.
  • Rapid eye movement (REM) sleep is a normal stage of sleep characterized by rapid movements of the eyes. REM sleep in adult humans typically occupies 20-25% of total sleep, about 90-120 minutes of a nights sleep.

    During REM sleep the body is paralyzed by a mechanism in the brain in order to prevent the movements which occur in the dream from causing the physical body to move. However, it is possible for this mechanism to be triggered before, during, or after normal sleep while the brain awakens.
  • Our mind interprets the external stimuli that our senses are bombarded with when we are asleep and make them a part of our dreams. This means that sometimes in our dreams we hear a sound from reality and incorporate it in a way. For example you may be dreaming that you are in a concert while your brother is playing a guitar during your sleep.
  • Men tend to dream more about other men. Around 70% of the characters in a man's dream are other men. On the other hand, a woman's dream contains almost an equal number of men and women. Aside from that, men generally have more aggressive emotions in their dreams than the female lot.
  • Results of several surveys across large population sets indicate that between 18% and 38% of people have experienced at least one precognitive dream and 70% have experienced Deja-vu.The percentage of persons that believe precognitive dreaming is possible is even higher รข€“ ranging from 63% to 98%.

    *Precognition, also called future sight, refers to perception that involves the acquisition of future information that cannot be deduced from presently available and normally acquired sense-based information.

Too Much Rain...

I see I'm not the only one this miserable weather is making lethargic. I just watched a fly walk across the room.......It's been 5 days weather is still cloudy and dark...too much rain............and so much moist at home..... Suraj uncle is sleeping from last 5 days......
Getting Rainy day SMSs everyday....

If I could pull down the rainbow

I would write UR name with it &
put it back in the sky
2 let everybody know
how colorful my life is with a friend like U!!

Rain is not only drops of water.

It is the LOVE of sky 4 earth.
They never meet each other but send LOVE this way.
Enjoy the LOVE of nature.
aj badal kalay gehray hain,

aaj chand pay lakhon pehray hain,
Kuch tukray tumhari yaadon k,
bari dair say dil mein thehray hain,