Saturday, October 16, 2010

Do Appreciate Her

Today I just got a call from my old friend who is desperately wants to get married but couldn't find a right girl till now. I asked what you want actually.....he said a working girl,dikhne me thik thak si, thodi bahut cooking aati ho............blah blah.
Like any other men. After all men are men. I told him you (infact all boys) should marry with these facts firmly grounded in their mind……..before getting married especially to a working women.

"Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements. One, who has lived and loved,
Her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name,

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day,even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly – Your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this……

Atleast appreciate “HER”. Atlest don't let her forget that how fantastic she is..



And as you dream,
That only you can make
Your dreams come true.

And as you reach,
Remember that...
Success takes time,

And sometimes a little

And as you believe,
You will find

Reaching gets easier,
Setbacks get
More manageable,
Life becomes
More meaningful.

There's a wonderful dream
Waiting just for you...
I know you can make it come true.
Have a Great Day Ahead!

One Line Humor

  • Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right and the other is the husband!
  • Don't marry the person you want to live with, marry the one you cannot live without, but whatever you do, you'll regret it later.  
  • You can't buy love, but you pay heavily for it.
  • Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway.
  • My wife and I always compromise. I admit I'm wrong and she agrees with me.
  •  It doesn't matter how often a married man changes his job, he still ends up with the same boss.
  • Why do couples hold hands during their wedding? It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!
  • There is only one perfect wife / husband in the world and every neighbor has it! .
  • They call our language the mother tongue because the father seldom gets to speak! 
  • Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do? Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.

Just read it some where..

Women will never be as successful as men because they have no wives to advise them.

– Dick Van Dyke

Tumse Hi Tumse......

Really very romantic lyrics........

Ab se koi khushi nahi

Jiski tum wajah nahi
Ab se koi din nahi
Jiski tum subah nahi
Ab se koi baat nahi
Jo tumse na hogi shuru
Ab se koi raah nahi
Jo tum sang main mudhoon
Abh ke abhi yeh ho gaya yakeen
Yeh zindagi meri ho gayi teri
Abh ke abhi yeh ho gaya yakeen
Yeh zindagi meri ho gayi teri
Tumse hi tumse har baat
Har baat hai
Jab tum ho saath
Tumse hi tumse har baat
Har baat hai
Jab tum ho saath

I wait for a sign so I know you are mine everyday
I look in the mirror and I see your face
The walls break down down
When you smile at me
And the world's much brighter than the one I see

As I wait for sign so I know
You are mine everyday
I look in the mirror and I see your face
The walls break down down
When you smile at me
And the world's much brighter than the one I see

Abh ke abhi yeh ho gaya yakeen
Yeh zindagi meri ho gayi teri
Abh ke abhi yeh ho gaya yakeen
Yeh zindagi meri ho gayi teri
Tumse hi tumse har baat

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

The Beautiful White Sand Beach

Our weekend trip to Ganapatipule was built up over a period of time .After a lot of initial postponement, we (3 couples) rented a Innova and finally packed our bags to Ganapatipule on a weekend last to last week.

The drive from Mumbai to Ganapatipule takes at least 8 - 9 hours covering a distance of 375 kms. Although route is really scenic but it was really tiring.

When we reached there we were mesmerized by the view of the beach when traveling downhill towards the beach through the approach road. The view of the vast ocean covering kissing the horizon and the blue waters is breath taking and entices you to rush towards it for a dip.

Ganapatipule’s beaches is a pleasant place to de-stress yourself.This is a very idyllic beach. Sand is thick and white and the water is crystal clear. One cannot resist entering in water.
 Our Resort Tranquility is the most sought after hotel in Ganapatipule due to its unique beach facing location and provides direct access to the beach. It sits on the side of a hill that faces the sea.

We gone for an early morning walk on the beach that energizes and stimulates your deepest senses……………here are few clicks from my camera!!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Got First Acknowledgement For My blog

I got 50th Rank on a BIG MOTIVATION for me. Finally I got some readers for my writing he he...........They said "You have a good IndiRank. Keep blogging "

Yes I will........!!!!!!

Hurahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaa!!! Dhinchak !! Dhinchak !! Dhinchak!!! :-)

I really love their tag line...
" Indian By Birth...Bloggers By Choice" Proudly says I am also a part of this.YES.

Friday, October 08, 2010

Life In A Metro......!!!!

Monday,10 a.m.

She: You’ve reached office?
He: Yes..Busy. Will call you back.

2.00 p.m.

She: Had lunch?
He: Yup. In a meeting. Will call you back.

4.30 p.m.

He: You called.
She : In a meeting. I’ll call you back?

7.00 p.m.

She: Starting for home. You?
He: Not yet. Will call you back!!!!


It's Always Hard To End A Relationship...

The emotional blow is very hard to deal with when a relationship falls apart. Even though you know it's the right thing to do. And if you didn't want it to happen, it is even more painful. It seems impossible to stop thinking about the memories you have shared together.

There is no easy way...And most of all we need an iron will and rock hard determination.The best way to do it is cold heartedly. Block the mail id so that the person you want to break off from, cannot mail you... Delete the phone numbers. Destroy photographs. or any sentimental gifts received. Do not look back. That is the only way.

It hurts like hell. But with time, the pain eases. The first day is always the hardest. Then, as the days go by, the pain eases and it becomes easier to remember the good times. a bit like facing death. Except that what is dead here is the relationship.

Getting over someone - I don't know...Actually I feel like we will never have the courage to live alone... We have always been so dependant on someone...and scared to sit alone on a weekend evening wondering what to do... I think...We got too insecure in our life (Although most of us have had a perfectly secure upbringing!).

I think when you are younger, it seems that way. When you push yourself then you discover your strengths--something even you weren't aware you were capable of.
If you discover a passion that is so intense then I guess, it will become easier for you to cope.

One has to take action if one feels that one's self respect is being compromised. If you endlessly wait for the phone to ring, hoping it will be your love? if you obsess about that person? If it affect your whole life. In the sense, does your whole life revolve around that one person? If so, it is time to end it.

And in the end you will be richer, though it doesn’t seem so at first...Eventually you will be glad you reclaimed your life and you will be glad that you can survive and be happy. Despite everything.

"Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn't mean you are weak!
It only means that you are strong enough to let go!"

"I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy, I'm going to laugh, so you don't see me cry, I'm going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me - I'm going to smile."

Stay Happy……….Stay Blessed….Come what may!!

Friday, October 01, 2010

My Rainbow

Your rainbow is shaded green.

What is says about you: You are an intelligent person. You feel strong ties to nature and your mood changes with its cycles. Those around you admire your fresh outlook and vitality.

Find the colors of your rainbow at