Holding Hands....

Here is a short story with a beautiful message...

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,

'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'

The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'

'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.

'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl.

'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,

chances are that I may let your hand go.

But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,

you will never let my hand go.'

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind,

but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold

yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.

I really want a big change!!

Things change.People change.Life changes.Everything at some point changes.Sometimes its good and sometimes it's bad.

Things happen beyond our comtrol.We can change the way we react or behave but we can’t change others.

You can change yourself through healing from past hurts and things done against you, but the facts of what’s been before can’t change.

Let changes not interfere in the life we lead.It would be a waste of time if we could follow a perfectly calculated plan.

What has happened has happened..concentrate on here and now..

I am eagerly waiting to "Winds of Change"!!!

Live_Love_Laugh_Hope_Faith

Laugh so hard that sorrow would wish you smile!
Live so well that death would wish you life!
Fight so hard that fate would wish you luck!

PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY!

Professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it.

He held it up for all to see & asked the students

"How much do you think this glass weighs?"

'50gms!' ..... '100gms!' .....'125gms' ...the students answered.

"I really don't know unless I weigh it," said the professor, "but, my question is:

What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?"

'Nothing' …..the students said. '

Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?' the professor asked.

'Your arm would begin to ache' said one of the student

"You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?"

"Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis & have to go to hospital for sure!" ….. ventured another student & all the students laughed

"Very good.

But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?" asked the professor.

'No'…. Was the answer.

"Then what caused the arm ache & the muscle stress?" The students were puzzled.

"What should I do now to come out of pain?" asked professor again.

"Put the glass down!" said one of the students

"Exactly!" said the professor.

Life's problems are something like this.

Hold it for a few minutes in your head & they seem OK.

Think of them for a long time & they begin to ache.

Hold it even longer & they begin to paralyze you.

You will not be able to do anything.

It's important to think of the challenges or problems in your life,

But EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to 'PUT THEM DOWN' at the end of every day before You go to sleep.....

That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh &strong & can handle any issue,

any challenges that comes your way.

So, when you leave office today, Remember my friend -- 'PUT THE GLASS DOWN TODAY!"

Wonderful story................

I found this story worth sharing!!!!!!!!!!!!




Priya married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party,
Priya's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook.
With Rs.1000 deposit amount.
Mother: 'Priya, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage
life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new
life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The
more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the
first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh.When you look back
after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'
Priya shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it
was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be
made.




This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage
- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Priya
- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali
- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Priya got pregnant
- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted
..... and so on...


However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial
things.They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the
most nasty people in the world.... no more love...Kind of typical
nowadays, huh?


One day Priya talked to her Mother:
'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how
I decided to marry this guy!!!'
Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you
really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the
saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and
spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.'


Priya thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue
and planning to cancel the account.
While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked,
and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and
happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She
left and went home.


When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend
the money before getting divorce.
The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Priya. She found a new
deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I
notice
how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness
you've brought me.'
They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe.


Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not
ask.I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru
all the good years in their life.




"When you fall, in any way,
Don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you
slipped.


Life is about correcting mistakes."

Zeitgeist !!

Zeitgeist

I read this word somewhere and don’t know why but it sounds very interesting.

Zeitgeist [tsyt‐gyst], the German word for ‘time‐spirit’, more often translated as ”the spirit of the age”. It usually refers to the prevailing mood or attitude of a given period.

The spirit of the times; the dominant beliefs of a particular period. The term is usually applied to the study of literature, but it has also been applied to sport (for example, in connection with the current belief that winning is all that matters).

Sound really interesting na!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Things to learn from “The Heart Wants”

I got this nice forward! I think sometimes movies really leaves a great impact on us and we learns from them atleast from few of them!! Anyways, its a nice fwd and is certainly worth reading atleast once.

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Things we can learn from Dil Chahta Hai!!!!!!

• Freaking out and enjoying life doesn’t need drugs or cigarettes.
  
  


• There are relationships apart from bf/gf and friendship, that can be very emotional and true, which is beyond the understanding of many people.
  

• And yeah even though you may be the best of friends there is always a limit which should never be crossed. Then it starts hurting………..
• Improving U r imperfections after you realize it, always take some time.
• You always don’t need to show or prove your gf/bf how much you love or care about her/him, which can sound very boring and finally get you dumped.
• Believe in Love. True love will never let you down.
• Never be ashamed to go back to your old friends,friends are there to understand your mistakes.




• Do not be afraid of others, always think that others are afraid of you. (remember the Australian Beggar at the railway station.)


• Whenever you need your friend, remember that he is just a phone call away… distance can’t separate friends.


• In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.


• It’s the friends you can call up at 4 A. M. that matter.
The only unchangeable certainty is that nothing is certain or unchangeable.


• The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit with on a porch and swing with, and never say a word, and then walk away feeling it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.


• And last but not the least- do what your heart loves.. Karo wahi jo, DIL CHAHTA HAI !!!
  

“The Heart Wants”

Words of Wisdom....

• Leave no stone unturned
• If you would create something, you must be something
• Every artist was first and amateur
• The power of imagination make us infinite
• Try not to become a man of success, but a man of value
• There is no beauty, but the beauty of action
• Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action
• Well done is better than well said
• To catch lots of fish, you must first go to the water
• Procrastination is the thief of time
• Life is what happens to you while you are making other plans
• You pile up enough tomorrows, and you'll find you've collected a lot of empty yesterdays
• One does evil enough when one does nothing good

Tongue Twisters!

I always enjoy to speak different Tongue Twisters every time from my childhood days. I have collected few difficult words in my diary.
Basically a Tongue Twisters is a phrase or sentence which is hard to speak fast, usually because of alliteration or a sequence of nearly similar sounds. It actually helps to develop speech skills & helps in speech therapy.
Here are some cool Tongue Twisters from my collection, have fun !

• If you notice this notice, you will notice that this notice is not worth noticing.
• If you tell Tom to tell a tongue-twister his tongue will be twisted as tongue-twister twists tongues.
• I thought a thought.But the thought I thought wasn't the thought I thought I thought.If the thought I thought I thought had been the thought I thought, I wouldn't have thought so much.
• A sailor went to sea To see, what he could see. And all he could see Was sea, sea, sea.
• Sounding by sound is a sound method of sounding sounds.
• If you understand, say "understand".If you don't understand, say "don't understand".But if you understand and say "don't understand".How do I understand that you understand? Understand!
• Gopi Gope Gupangam Das .
• Betty Botter bought some butter, but she said "this butter's bitter! But a bitof better butter will but make my butter better" So she bought some betterbutter, better than the bitter butter, and it made her butter better so 'twasbetter Betty Botter bought a bit of better butter!
• The sixth sick Sheik's sixth sheep is sick.[Described as the hardest tongue-twister in the English language.]

Mr. See owned a saw,
And Mr. Soar owned a seesaw.
Now, See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw
Before Soar saw See,
Which made Soar sore.
Had Soar seen See's saw
Before See sawed Soar's seesaw,
See's saw would not have sawed
Soar's seesaw.
So See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.
But it was sad to see Soar so sore
just because See's saw sawed
Soar's seesaw.

Most Romantic Lines....

The most romantic Hollywood lines of all times.....

PS: Click on pics to read clearly.

Autumn......

Got these pics in a mail...............it reminds me a poem I read some where long time back....

Just remember few lines..................trying to remember may be can add later on....




Pretty leaves are falling down,

Green, orange, yellow and brown.

Here comes one colored red,

It landed on my head

Leaves in the Fall come tumbling down,

Scarlet and yellow, russet and brown,

Leaves in the garden are swept in a heap,

The trees are ready for sleep.

One Word Description.....

I got this message from one of my friend:

"Describe me in ONE WORD...just one word! Send it to me only, then send this message to your friends and see how many strange things people say about you!"

I send it to all my friends.

The words that came back about me were:

Smile,Intelligent,Talented,Candid,Sweet,Faithful,Lovable,Mine,Hopeful,Best Friend,

Tough,Jolly,Caring ;also wrote that one word is not enough to describe you:-)

Memories.............

By: Elvis Presley

Memories, pressed between the pages of my mind

Memories, sweetened thru the ages just like wine

Quiet thought come floating down

And settle softly to the ground

Like golden autumn leaves around my feet

I touched them and they burst apart with sweet memories,

Sweet memories.

Of holding hands and red bouquets

And twilight trimmed in purple haze

And laughing eyes and simple ways

And quiet nights and gentle days with you

Memories, pressed between the pages of my mind

Memories, sweetened thru the ages just like wine,

Memories, memories, sweet memories

Sea Shore Shell Sells........

A wonderful picture of Sea shore with a morning sunrise walk ………..

Reminds me of the popular Tongue Twister:

She sells sea shells on the sea shore;

The shells that she sells are sea shells I'm sure.

So if she sells sea shells on the sea shore,

I'm sure that the shells are sea shore shells.

When You Say Nothing At All

"When You Say Nothing at All" was Keating's first solo single outside the confines of popular Irish group Boyzone.He recorded it in 1999 for the soundtrack of the film Notting Hill. The song would also appear on Keating's solo debut album Ronan the following year.

Keating's version of "When You Say Nothing at All" was released as a single in the third quarter of 1999 and reached number one on the UK chart. It also reached the top position in Ireland. In the UK, the single was certified gold.

In 2003, he re-recorded the single as a duet with Mexican singer Paulina Rubio, which was released in Mexico and Latin America to promote a hits compilation.
Here the song………….

When You Say Nothing At All.......
By: Ronan Keating

It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word, you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don’t say a thing


The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes saying you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me when ever I fall
You say it best..when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd (the crowd)
Try as they may they can never define
What’s been said between your heart and mine


you say it best when you say nothing at all
You say it best when you say nothing at all..

The smile on your face
The truth in your eyes
The touch of your hand
Let’s me know that you need me..


you say it best when you say nothing at all
You say it best when you say nothing at all..

The smile on your face
The truth in your eyes
The touch of your hand
Let’s me know that you need me..

you say it best when you say nothing at all You say it best when you say nothing at all..

जुर्रत...Nida Fazli...

दिल में ना हो जुर्रत तो,मुहब्बत नही मिलती
खैरात में इतनी बड़ी ,दौलत नही मिलती।

कुछ लोग शहर में,हमसे भी खफा है
हर एक से अपनी भी,तबियत नही मिलती।

देखा था जिसे मैंने,कोई और था शायद
वो कौन है जिस से तेरी,सूरत नही मिलती

हँसते हुए चेहरों से है,बाज़ार की जीनत,
रोने की यहाँ वैसे भी,फुर्सत नही मिलती।

निकला करो ये शमा लिए,घर से भी बहार
तन्हाई सजाने को,मुसीबत नही मिलती.

Life's Choices…

This poem is what I have learned through many years.I have learned that looks are not everything in life.

Life's Choices…

Life is full of choices
Make sure you pick the right one
Don't listen to the voices
Hear only yours and you have won

Many people will tell you
You need to change your looks
Don't take to heart their view
Fabulous bods are found only in books

There is only one voice
That you should listen to
It will help make the right choice
That is perfect just for you

Your looks are your own
Someone will always love you
You will never be alone
Look in the mirror and you'll see who

Phir Dekhiye..................

One of the best lyrices !!!!!

Aankhon me jiske koi to Khawab he,
Khush he wahi jo thda betab he.
Zindgi me koi aarzu kijey,
Phir Dekhiye…………………
Hothon per jiske koi to geet he,
Wo hare bhi to uski jeet he.
Dil me jo geet he wo bana lijey,
Phir Dekhiye……………………..
Yaadon me jiski kisi ka naam he,
Sapno ke jaisi uski har sham he.
Koi to ho jisey apna dil dijey,
Phir Dekhiye………………..
Khawab buniye zara,
Geet suniye zara,
Phool Chuniye zara,Phir Dekhiye………………………….

अपनी मर्ज़ी से कहाँ अपने सफर के हम है

अपनी मर्ज़ी से कहाँ अपने सफर के हम है
रुख हवाओं का जिधर का है उधर के हम है

पहले हर चीज़ थी अपनी मगर अब लगता है
अpne he घर में किसी दुसरे घर के हम है

वक्त के साथ हे मिटटी का सफर सदियों का
किसको malum कहाँ के , किधर के हम है

चलते रहते हे की चलना के मुसाफिर का नसीब
सोचते रहते है की किस रह गुज़र के हम है
................................... best of Nida Fazli

जीवन की आपाधापी में

"जीवन की आपाधापी में कब वक़्त मिलाकुछ
देर कहीं पर बैठ कभी यह सोच सकूँजो
किया, कहा, माना उसमें क्या बुरा भला। "

मैं कितना ही भूलूँ, भटकूँ या भरमाऊँ,
है एक कहीं मंज़िल जो मुझे बुलाती है,
कितने ही मेरे पाँव पड़े ऊँचे-नीचे,
प्रतिपल वह मेरे पास चली ही आती है,
मुझ पर विधि का आभार बहुत-सी बातों का।
पर मैं कृतज्ञ उसका इस पर सबसे ज़्यादा -
नभ ओले बरसाए, धरती शोले उगले,
अनवरत समय की चक्की चलती जाती है,
मैं जहाँ खड़ा था कल उस थल पर आज नहीं,
कल इसी जगह पर पाना मुझको मुश्किल है,
ले मापदंड जिसको परिवर्तित कर देतींकेवल छूकर ही देश-काल की सीमाएँ
जग दे मुझपर फैसला उसे जैसा भाएलेकिन
मैं तो बेरोक सफ़र में जीवन केइस एक और पहलू से होकर निकल चला।
जीवन की आपाधापी में कब वक़्त मिलाकुछ
देर कहीं पर बैठ कभी यह सोच सकूँजो
किया, कहा, माना उसमें क्या बुरा भला।

Always remember, I love you...

Always remember I love you
More than words
Could ever show,
And I think of you always-
Much more than You could know
And now until forever,
Always remember this too,
There's no one
I could ever love
More than
I LOVE YOU!

आदर्श प्रेम," by Dr. Harivansh Rai Bachchan

One of my fav poem.........
प्यार किसी को करना लेकिन कहकर उसे बताना कया
अपने को अपर्ण करना परऔ‌र को अपनाना क्यागुण का ग्राहक बनना लेकिन गाकर उसे सुनाना क्या
मन के कल्पित भावों से औरों को भ्रम में लाना क्या
ले लेना सुगन्ध सुमनों कीतोड़ उन्हें मुरझाना क्या
प्रेम हार पहनाना लेकिन
प्रेम पाश फैलाना क्यात्याग अंक में पले प्रेम शिशुउनमेंस्वार्थ बताना क्या
देकर ह्रदय ह्रदय पाने कीआशा व्यर्थ लगाना क्या

Sometimes...

Sometimes people come into our life and we know right away that they were meant to be there,to serve some sort of purpose, teach us a lesson,or to help us figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

I just wanted to thanks all those people who are/were in my life and changed my life taught me & touched my heart.

The people I meet who affect my life, and the success and downfalls I experience, actually help to create who I am and who I become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones for me.

What I learnt by all those good and bad experince in my life that If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Most importantly, if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live.

Someday...

I wish I could write this.................


Someday you'll love me,
Someday you'll care,
Someday you'll treasure the moments we've shared.
The moments I wanted you are
The moments I dreamed you wanted me.

Someday you'll find its not a game.

Someday you'll relize how lonely life can be.

Someday you'll find me,
But it won't be the same my love will not be there,
My love will have died,
And you'll remember the tears I once cried.

Someday you'll love me.

Someday you'll care,
But someday my love it just won't be there...

Why Are You in My Head?

I found this on web and thought to save it in my blogs...............

You are in my head
Why are you there?
You bother me when you go there
There are secrets and stories not to be told
But when your in my head
there is nothing to hide
I love to let you pick at my mind
and let you inside
let you know everything about me
let you know theres nothing to hide
but there are days
when you can't be there
there are some days
when the secrets
and stories all come back to haunt
me in my memories
those are the days
you shouldn't go there
you can't go there its not that
I don't trust you its not that
I don't love you its just that
I don't want you to know the past
I want you to know the good memories
you love me for me
and thats what makes me like you
you don't judge me and
you make me feel special
thats why
I love you
and always will.

It's Raining !!

From last 15-20 days every after 1 day its raining in delhi.And I am trying to remember one of the raining poem which we learnt in nursury.

Falling water from sky leaving smile on our faces.......

Its actually called Feel good factor.

& here poem goes on....

It's raining, it's pouring;

The old man is snoring.

Bumped his head

And he went to bed

And he couldn't get up in the morning.

Rain, rain, go away;

Come again another day;

Little Johnny wants to play.

But rain please don't go away....please be with us till the summer ends.

A Way Back Into Love!!

Music & Lyrics happens to be one of my favourite films now, and well, this, I wrote right after I saw the film. In the movie, there's a guy who plays the musician, and a girl who's going to write lyrics for him, and they have the title of their song, which is 'A Way Back Into Love'. So, I just got inspired, and penned this down. Of COURSE the song in the movie is better.

We walked a path,
Not so long ago.
Together we were
Good to go.
I had you and
You had me.
Things just as good
As they could be.
Then what makes me so lonely
Today?
Did I leave you or did you go
Your way?
But I know
I want to find
My way back into love -
A way back into love.
I've searched for you.
I've looked for love.
In the earth below,
In the sky above.
I've given up now.
Want to love,
But don't know how.
Come find me -
Show me the way -
My way back into love -
A way back into love...